Dear pen(demic) pals,
Ohnut online is alive and well! We'll be doing our best to make sure you feel supported inside and outside of the bedroom—because now more than ever, it's important to take care of each other! There may be some minor delivery delays, but please know your purchase is on the way (and don't hesitate to reach out if you experience any problems).
Our hearts are with you and your's in this bizarre time—hoping you're staying safe, healthy, and 6 feet away from others in public.
So! Let's all wash our hands and remember: You're doing great :)
Customize penetration depth
Smart. Playful. Partner-Approved.
Sometimes penetration can go too deep. (Yeow!) These comfy modular rings incrementally adjust so you can explore what feels good - for both of you.
I have endometriosis which has always caused painful sex. It got even worse when I developed adenomyosis and had to have a hysterectomy to remove my uterus and cervix. After my hysterectomy any time we tried to have sex, he would hit my cuff (what they use to replace a cervix) and it was TERRIBLE. We finally gave up on sex for about 18 months. When I ran across this, we bought it immediately. It has helped so much!! My husband doesn't worry about hurting me and I don't have to grit my teeth and bare the pain. We can enjoy ourselves without worry. If you have endometriosis or had a hysterectomy, I can't recommend this enough!!
My partner and I have been together nearly 7 years, and while we have enjoyed our sexual relationship I have always struggled with penetration. I have never even been able to use tampons! The Ohnut gives me the power to feel comfortable with penetration while still allowing us the intimacy penetration facilitates. My partner was skeptical about how it would impact his sensation, but he loves it just as much as I do! Even more because he knows I am comfortable. Our troubles with sex have been a source of tension for such a long time, and the Ohnut has allowed us to rediscover sex. Thank you for this amazing product!
I was a virgin before I married my husband, so having sex was something I was not used to. I think other than my pelvic floor being a little tight, I'm pretty sure I just psyched myself out too much on our wedding night. Any time we tried sex, no matter how much lube we used or what positions we tried, I experienced an enormous amount of pain. We spent about two-ish months without being able to have intercourse because every time we tried, there was nothing but pain for me. My husband was super supportive the whole time, but I was heartbroken about it. My gyno said there was "nothing wrong with me" but the advice to "just relax" wasn't helping me at all. I had gotten a targeted ad from Ohnut after researching my problem, and after exhausting every other option, I caved and bought a pack. And let me tell you, this product is literally a life-saver. My husband had absolutely no issues with how it felt, and literally the first time we tried it, we were FINALLY able to actually have intercourse for the first time in our marriage!! Other than some initial discomfort, this product slowly and surely helped me to work through the mental barrier that was causing my body to tense up and experience so pain. We're both blown away by how well it worked and would 100% recommend it to anyone in a similar situation to ours! :)
This product has seriously given me my sex life back.
I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years, and he has always been a little big for me. We always made it work with lots of lube and foreplay, but in the past couple years it's gotten way worse and we slowly went from having sex at least once or twice a week to maybe once a month.
I saw Ohnut in an ad on Facebook and instantly got excited and super hopeful. I was still nervous and unsure if it would help me, but I pushed forward and bought a set of 4!
We finally tried it out tonight and I had sex that wasn't distractingly painful for the first time in over a year!!! I am so thankful for this product and I will be a lifelong supporter of Ohnut!!!
My only small suggestion for making a perfect product even better would be to maybe have slightly smaller or larger sizes to account for girth (my BF said it was a tiny bit too tight on him once he got harder, but that it was still worth it to use since it made such a difference for me!)
Thank God for this miracle product! Every woman should have this! I think their would be a lot less divorces had we all knew about this sooner!
I've been having painful intercourse for the last 4 years & there are 2 components to it: pain experienced from a penis (or toy) hitting my cervix, and a burning pain at the opening of my vagina coupled with inflammation and swelling in my labia minora that usually starts to occur after about 10-15 minutes of penetrative sex. The pain from the latter lasts sometimes a whole day or two afterwards. It's not only been an incredibly physically painful experience, but emotionally/psychologically painful & draining as well. That's why I was so excited to see Ohnut as a product. Does it solve all of my problems? No. But it eliminates the first component of pain which I am eternally grateful for.
Here’s the thing, though: Ohnut isn’t just a lovely product that logistically helps vulva-owners have less painful sex--it’s a vehicle for change, which is arguably more important! It opens up a dialogue about painful sex where there wasn’t one before. Painful sex is such a common, widespread issue for vulva-owners, but this is largely ignored by the general public & doctors alike because we dismiss it within ourselves, & then even if we do come forward and say it, were dismissed by our doctors too. I know that was definitely my experience. I’ve been poked, prodded, sonogrammed (multiple times), told I just have yeast or bacterial infections, told I need to wear loose cotton underwear during the day, & none at night, but none of it has brought me any closer to solving the issue. My pain is still here & no one has the slightest clue why, nor do they seem to care. I’m sick of this problem being delegitimized and/or minimized. The other issue is a huge lack of research when it comes to female sex organs, and it’s complete B.S. Just look up vulvodynia and you’ll see how little anyone knows about it. So THANK YOU Ohnut for bringing awareness to this problem & helping us take the first step in talking about it. To whoever is reading this, please talk more about it! Talk to your partner(s), your friends, your family, your doctors! Hopefully if enough people are aware, talking about it, & demanding solutions, the next step will be more clinical studies on it and more innovative products like these.
P.S. the only logistical issue I came across in using Ohnut is that my partner said he couldn't really enjoy sex much with 3 rings on & in certain positions, that's how many rings I preferred. I'm not really sure Ohnut can do anything to solve this, but regardless it’s not much of a problem. I still love them <3
My husband is well endowed and I fun a little shallow and tight. As a result, most positions end up being painful for me. We typically stuck to the same 3 that we both enjoyed. So glad I found Oh Nut because now we are enjoying positions we haven’t tried in years. Would 100% recommend if you have a tight pelvic floor or shallow canal (or even just an endowed partner).
After a hysterectomy, I decided to take back my sex life with the help of Ohnut. I only wish I would’ve started using it sooner. It makes having sex with my husband possible once once again. The packaging was discreet. It included 4 rings, a carry bag. a note card with a conversation starter and some encouraging words from Emily. I love that it’s BPA, phthalate, and latex free. It feels like a safety cushion for me and my husband feels confident that he won’t cause me any pain while wearing it. Ohnut truly helps bring partners closer by fostering communication & positive sexual interaction. I even shared it on my Instagram page @theangrybladder.
Would highly recommend for anyone who has pain with sex
After 2+ years of being married, my husband and I for the first time ever had painless sex!!!!!! I nearly cried at the end because I was so so so overwhelmed! If you are someone who struggles with painful sex (or Endo), you know the emotional toll that takes on you / your partner / your marriage!! After seeing my doctor last week who suspected Endo, I started to do my own research. Came across Ohnut and was immediately sold!! I had basically come to terms with the fact that I would probably struggle with painful sex for the rest of my life... since there isn’t really a helpful solution. In a moment of desperation and after years of frustration and sadness, the Ohnut has been a Godsend!! Truly so thankful for the people who invented Ohnut and were determined to not take “no” for an answer! My husband and I thank you!!! Seriously considering calling my OBGYN tomorrow to tell him to recommend this to ANY and all patients who have painful sex!!!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! Hope is not lost!!!
While suffering long term with endo pain, sex with my boyfriend became a struggle for both of us. Nothing else had worked so I'd thought we'd give Ohnut a chance. If you have any doubts about this product, DON'T. It's so amazing and let us do positions we'd never thought we'd be able to do again. The stacking adjustment is perfect for when I have flare-ups, and I now no longer have pain during or after sex. I cannot say enough good things about this product. My boyfriend loves it too- says the rings are more comfortable than he thought they would be and almost doesn't notice he has them on. Thank you all so much for this wonderful product!
Today I had penetrative sex for the first time after suffering with vaginismus for 5 years. My husband has been super patient with me as every time we tried to have sex I would be in excruciating pain. It was a challenging married life for both of us, but after using this product (with 4 rings), we eventually were able to have sex without any pain. We removed the rings and tried without them and I was able to have my husband in me fully.
Get this product. It is worth the money
As a sexual assault survivor and someone who struggles with Interstitial Cystitis, sex has been something I've had issues with since my first time. Thank god for this product and its cute packaging. Highly recommend to anyone who has difficulty with sex (or not, they're fun!) Thank you thank you thank you, Emily, all the years of pelvic floor therapy couldn't do what you and your team have done.
I will never be able to thank you enough for creating this product. I have been sexually active for about 3 years. Never once have I enjoyed penetrative sex. It was EXTREMELY painful. When I spoke about it with my doctor I was told “try a different position.” Sex became this activity I dreaded engaging in because I knew it always led to immense pain.
A video ad of yours showed up on my fb and I was like “yah this is me. I am this woman.” I ordered the ohnut hoping for the best. Today I tried it for the first time and literally started crying because for the first time in my life penetrative sex was not painful.
Seriously thank you so much. You have changed my entire life! I can imagine the difficulties new businesses encounter, but please never give up. I never knew pain-free sex was possible. You have given me something I’ll never be able to repay, other than by trying to spread the word and help other women too!
Seriously, I have had trouble with pain during sex due to my husband's size for a decade. We made it work because we love each other, but it hurt both of us. This is the first product we have ever found that actually works. This has literally saved our sex life. I can't praise ohnut enough.
Dear life changing company,
Thank you for this product.
Seriously, it’s well worth the money. My wife and I love that we bought it. I’m going to have to start sending you all Christmas cards.
It's ultra soft and squishy, and it doesn't feel weird for the guy. I prefer it with the rounded side towards me, instead of the "link" side as shown in all the vague instructional pictures, it helps with more with motion-related tearing during rough sex.
I have a history of sexual assault and my partner prefers rougher & deeper sex, which isn't always the best combination. Painful cervical pounding during sex has always been kind of a trigger for me and this thing prevents that. Just makes everything way less stressful for both of us knowing that he won't go too deep and I won't panic about it.
I recommend putting however many links you want together first, then applying lube and putting it oh. Helps them stick together. I prefer a water-based lube so that they just take a quick rinse to clean off later.
This should be standard-issue at college clinics, right next to the condoms!
Okay, HEAR ME OUT. I never realized that every time I had sex I was actually in pain. I thought it was normal. And then I got Ohnut. My main reason to try it is that I have a cervical ectropion that would make sex... a bloody mess (not in the British sense of it unfortunately). I found out sex doesn't hurt?! Like, not at all?!! WHY HAS NO ONE EVER TOLD ME SEX SHOULD NOT HURT BEFORE?! And I don't bleed during/after intercourse since trying it. I owe my inner peace and newly found intimacy to the wonderful woman that invented Ohnut. Bonus: my partner is not bothered by it at all. It's comfortable and doesn't interfere with his pleasure. I would give 6 stars if I could. THANK YOU!
My husband and I were at the point where sex was only happening once or twice a month. It was uncomfortable for me every time, and the awkward positions that didn't cause me pain weren't doing the trick for him. We were having sex that lasted way too long and neither of us really enjoyed. I was constantly worried that if I moved even slightly that it would hurt, and he was distracted by the fear of causing me pain.
Enter Ohnut, we used it as soon as it arrived in the mail and it was an instant game changer! No pain for me, and my husband had no problems finishing because he wasn't caught up in worrying hurting me. This product is miraculous!
I'm a petite woman with a huge man (7 1/2 inches long about inch and a half in girth). We could only do one position for a long time. Got this, threw the four rings on and holy crap, no pain and a whole new world to explore. Thank you guys. I really appreciate it.
My boyfriend says he can't feel it at all, and it fits him perfectly. (Almost no condoms fit him.) Apparently it is actually quite good for him to masturbate with too.
I met Emily at the Philly Trans Health Conference a few years back, and after talking to her for about 5 minutes, my partner bought the Ohnut set of 3. It is absolutely a game-changer. The rings work exactly as promised, and with it I have been able to be penetrated without any pain. Lube is a must, but it works with any lube so that's never been an issue for us. (It works very well with CBD lube.) I had always had the mindset of "sex hurts, but parts of it can also feel good so that's good enough." Since using Ohnut, my standards have gotten a lot higher. I deserve penetration that doesn't hurt. And so do you.
In addition to the product itself, the sweet notes from Emily in the box were so kind and encouraging. We keep part of the box in the kitchen that says "you're doing great!" I love being on the email list as well. Be brave. Be patient. Be kind to yourself and your vadge. The Ohnut and the culture around it is something I'll always be grateful for.
As a long-term pelvic therapy patient and a sexual assault survivor, I have to say this has really helped restore my faith that one day I will be a "normal" sexual person. While it doesn't completely fix the pain or work every time, it really has made it so that I can experience enjoyable sex the first time in my life. While expensive, it is a good investment in yourself.
Only difficulty is talking your partner into using it. He wasn't sold at first, but now it doesn't bother him.
Using this product was the first time in a long time that I did not feel pain during sex. My husband and I have had a decreased sex life because of my pain now, I can see the sex life going up. While using ohnut I literally cried in disbelief. There was no pain at all and my husband said that his pleasure was still there with the ohnut on. I was literally telling my husband to put me in all the positions that normally hurt me to just test to see if it actually worked in different positions, we were both blown away. Will recommend to people who have had the same problem as me.
Pretty blown away by these. The first time we used them was so good, I had to use them a few times before writing a review to make sure the first time wasnt a fluke. Its so much better for her, and being able to be intimate without worrying about causing her discomfort is like having a weight lifted off me; honestly gonna be pretty life changing for us
My husband is well endowed, length and circumference. The length is a big problem no pun intended. I am not sure why some people it can feel to tight? My husband is quite thick and said it's fine and this thing stretches a lot! Defiantly takes sting out of him bottoming out if you know what I mean. Worth every penny!
This product certainly helped with the “length” issue (I no longer feel like my organs are being penetrated), but my husband said the rings nearly cut off his circulation (he would be considered an XL in girth).
After increasing pain over the last few months, my husband and I decided to give this a try. I expected it to be more for myself, but I was shocked at how exciting it was for HIM! As a well-endowed man, there were positions he had always wanted to do, but had been unable to because they had always hurt his partner. Now he was able to indulge just as much as I was.
I was super skeptical about this, especially about it being innocuous for my partner. But we tried this today and WOW. Seriously life changing. I could cry! But not from pain. XD
They work exactly as advertised. Very easy to put on and adjust, comfortable, now I don't have to focus as hard to prevent bottoming out, and my girlfriend doesn't randomly get bottomed out when I do lose focus.
Like a charm :)
Before ohnut there was wincing and counting down the minutes, now I am so much more comfortable and I don't feel guilty for saying "ouch" every few minutes! Life saver!!!
I've never written a review before but the Ohnut is worth it! I bought the Ohnut to try with my boyfriend on Valentine's Day and it was a definite success. I've been experiencing increased pain with penetrative sex over the past year due to endometriosis and pelvic floor dysfunction. Discovering the Ohnut is so exciting for diagnoses that have felt very limiting. The toy is squishy and feels like second skin in the moment
My wife and I are so grateful for this product. It's such a simple solution that it should have been obvious. In any event, my post-menopausal wife has been experiencing pain during sex for some years. She was going to take hormones, but that didn't seem to be a sustainable solution. The Ohhnut is a wonderful non-medical solution. Thank you.
I am not a review writing type of person, but I will sing Ohnut's praises to anyone and everyone. I have been married not even two years and we have been able to have sex maybe 8 times, each time with a tremendous amount of pain and always ending with panic attacks. I have vaginismus, anxiety, depression, and a history of past sexual trauma, so I just resigned myself to the fact that I would never have sex again and I was a dried up broken old prune at 22. I found Ohnut while in an internet dark hole and after a bit of hesitation about the price decided to dive in. Guys. G U Y S . I can't say that this will work for everyone but it WORKED FOR US after NOTHING ELSE DID. Different lubes, different positions, pelvic floor therapy, vaginal suppositories - you name it, Ohnut beat it. We used 3 rings to start and we both were astonished at the ease and how enjoyable and relaxing it was for BOTH OF US. We laughed during sex where before I would hyperventilate, and that to us is worth every penny. If you're on the fence, hop on off and join the Ohnut family. THANK YOU OHNUT for giving me my sex life back!!!!!
My boyfriend is very large and wide. I bought the product so that it would not hurt so much when he enters me, however, the rings would not stay put. Even though they were linked together, they kept pulling apart and slipping away from each other. Thus they did not help us what so ever. Definitely was not worth the money. :(
I had thought my endometriosis had doomed me to forever have excruciating pain whenever he would accidentally go to deep. The OHNUT has made it so I no longer have to be cautious and careful. We can make love now without the fear of me suddenly screaming in pain, feeling like I had just been stabbed with an electrified knife. My husband and I can actually just relax and enjoy each other now. Thank you so much for this product.
SMART. PLAYFUL. PARTNER APPROVED.
These comfy modular rings are worn around the base of a penetrating partner (think ring toss) and compress down — like a bumper. Rings can be added or removed at any time during any position.
Stack Rings to Set Depth
Always start with 3. It's a magic number
Lube up Shaft or Insertable Toy
Slide Ohnut down to base
Add/Remove Rings to Adjust
Find what depths feel good—for both of you
IN THE PRESS
"If you're curious about this, I would say it's 100% worth a try."
"I’ve been able to have the kind of sex I used to have — the kind that leaves me sore in the good way the next day — and it’s all thanks to this little thing called the Ohnut."
"One woman stopped taking bad advice and created a device that may help millions."
"It's about damn time."
"Ohnut has already changed many couples' lives."
"Now with deep dyspareunia you have options. I think Ohnut is promising."
The Doctors TV, NBC
"An innovative piece of technology."
New York Magazine