Yall I was so pleasantly surprised by this!! We've only used it once so far, but our takeaway was this:
Issue: he's large/long. I have a lot of pelvic pain/ inflammation so any position that shortens my space is a no go.
Him: expected to be more aware of it, possibly slightly annoyed by it, but actually didn't really notice it at all! No complaints.
Me: expected it to take a position that hurt (like immediately), and make it not hurt (or at least like, be bearable). Not only did it not hurt- it felt good! I was soooo surprised!
Also he is a Trojan magnum XL size- I'm super glad I saw the guide that recommended that size go with the wider ohnut version- it definitely helped and I think the regular would have been awkward or uncomfortable to get on.
Thank you! <3