Thank you so much for making these, they have become a regular part of our play and sit in a drawer by our bed ready to use. We both enjoy rough D/S play, but I am quite small for my partner, so these allow us to fully relax into our dynamic without him being scared of hurting me or me tensing up. They're also so beautiful, we can leave them laying around the house and they look like little sculptures. I love the way they stack up to adjust the depth depending on how I'm feeling because my depth changes during my cycles. Overall an amazing product I think every girl should have <3
I was raised to wait until marriage to have sex, and that once you’re married sex would be the best gift. While I do no regret my own personal decision to wait, I hate that I never got a full comprehensive sex education. I was crushed to think that sex was this intensely painful. My husband and I would do different things, but I still felt like failure. I tried CBD oil and lube, I tried dilators, I tried silicone lube, nothing. Nothing made it better. I saw an ad for the Ohnut and it was my last resort. Well, this was it. It worked. It saved me. After 2.5 years, I had full, pain free penetrative sex. I’m thankful for people who took our pain seriously and created products that can make it less painful. This product changed everything for me. My husband even enjoyed it! He said it was comfortable and didn’t bother him. Thank you for making this product! Worth every penny!!
Where the product touched me, it caused me to have painful inflammation and irritation (you know where). The material smells STRONGLY of chemicals. When I smell it, I have an immune reaction like an allergy. There is lack of information about what the material is. Buyer beware, you cannot know how these chemicals will affect you. If you already have pain with sex, these could make your problem worse.
At first, I felt very uncomfortable with the idea of spending the money on something so “frivolous” because my husband and I were basically accepting our sexless marriage. I have always known sex wouldn’t be in my relationship due to smal, shallow anatomy. I was so anxious to try it the first day it came; I was worried it wouldn’t be worth the money. Not only has it changed my sex life, but also the way I view myself as a woman. I am so, so grateful to Emily for this creation that has reminded me of my worth!
A massive thank you Ohnut team for all the little details that make this product so special.
My partner and I have been together nearly 7 years, and while we have enjoyed our sexual relationship I have always struggled with penetration. I have never even been able to use tampons! The Ohnut gives me the power to feel comfortable with penetration while still allowing us the intimacy penetration facilitates. My partner was skeptical about how it would impact his sensation, but he loves it just as much as I do! Even more because he knows I am comfortable. Our troubles with sex have been a source of tension for such a long time, and the Ohnut has allowed us to rediscover sex. Thank you for this amazing product!
I was a virgin before I married my husband, so having sex was something I was not used to. I think other than my pelvic floor being a little tight, I'm pretty sure I just psyched myself out too much on our wedding night. Any time we tried sex, no matter how much lube we used or what positions we tried, I experienced an enormous amount of pain. We spent about two-ish months without being able to have intercourse because every time we tried, there was nothing but pain for me. My husband was super supportive the whole time, but I was heartbroken about it. My gyno said there was "nothing wrong with me" but the advice to "just relax" wasn't helping me at all. I had gotten a targeted ad from Ohnut after researching my problem, and after exhausting every other option, I caved and bought a pack. And let me tell you, this product is literally a life-saver. My husband had absolutely no issues with how it felt, and literally the first time we tried it, we were FINALLY able to actually have intercourse for the first time in our marriage!! Other than some initial discomfort, this product slowly and surely helped me to work through the mental barrier that was causing my body to tense up and experience so pain. We're both blown away by how well it worked and would 100% recommend it to anyone in a similar situation to ours! :)
Thank God for this miracle product! Every woman should have this! I think their would be a lot less divorces had we all knew about this sooner!
I've been having painful intercourse for the last 4 years & there are 2 components to it: pain experienced from a penis (or toy) hitting my cervix, and a burning pain at the opening of my vagina coupled with inflammation and swelling in my labia minora that usually starts to occur after about 10-15 minutes of penetrative sex. The pain from the latter lasts sometimes a whole day or two afterwards. It's not only been an incredibly physically painful experience, but emotionally/psychologically painful & draining as well. That's why I was so excited to see Ohnut as a product. Does it solve all of my problems? No. But it eliminates the first component of pain which I am eternally grateful for.
Here’s the thing, though: Ohnut isn’t just a lovely product that logistically helps vulva-owners have less painful sex--it’s a vehicle for change, which is arguably more important! It opens up a dialogue about painful sex where there wasn’t one before. Painful sex is such a common, widespread issue for vulva-owners, but this is largely ignored by the general public & doctors alike because we dismiss it within ourselves, & then even if we do come forward and say it, were dismissed by our doctors too. I know that was definitely my experience. I’ve been poked, prodded, sonogrammed (multiple times), told I just have yeast or bacterial infections, told I need to wear loose cotton underwear during the day, & none at night, but none of it has brought me any closer to solving the issue. My pain is still here & no one has the slightest clue why, nor do they seem to care. I’m sick of this problem being delegitimized and/or minimized. The other issue is a huge lack of research when it comes to female sex organs, and it’s complete B.S. Just look up vulvodynia and you’ll see how little anyone knows about it. So THANK YOU Ohnut for bringing awareness to this problem & helping us take the first step in talking about it. To whoever is reading this, please talk more about it! Talk to your partner(s), your friends, your family, your doctors! Hopefully if enough people are aware, talking about it, & demanding solutions, the next step will be more clinical studies on it and more innovative products like these.
P.S. the only logistical issue I came across in using Ohnut is that my partner said he couldn't really enjoy sex much with 3 rings on & in certain positions, that's how many rings I preferred. I'm not really sure Ohnut can do anything to solve this, but regardless it’s not much of a problem. I still love them <3
My husband is well endowed and I fun a little shallow and tight. As a result, most positions end up being painful for me. We typically stuck to the same 3 that we both enjoyed. So glad I found Oh Nut because now we are enjoying positions we haven’t tried in years. Would 100% recommend if you have a tight pelvic floor or shallow canal (or even just an endowed partner).
After a hysterectomy, I decided to take back my sex life with the help of Ohnut. I only wish I would’ve started using it sooner. It makes having sex with my husband possible once once again. The packaging was discreet. It included 4 rings, a carry bag. a note card with a conversation starter and some encouraging words from Emily. I love that it’s BPA, phthalate, and latex free. It feels like a safety cushion for me and my husband feels confident that he won’t cause me any pain while wearing it. Ohnut truly helps bring partners closer by fostering communication & positive sexual interaction. I even shared it on my Instagram page @theangrybladder.
Would highly recommend for anyone who has pain with sex
Overall I'm happy with the product. I've only used it once but it definitely helped!
After 2+ years of being married, my husband and I for the first time ever had painless sex!!!!!! I nearly cried at the end because I was so so so overwhelmed! If you are someone who struggles with painful sex (or Endo), you know the emotional toll that takes on you / your partner / your marriage!! After seeing my doctor last week who suspected Endo, I started to do my own research. Came across Ohnut and was immediately sold!! I had basically come to terms with the fact that I would probably struggle with painful sex for the rest of my life... since there isn’t really a helpful solution. In a moment of desperation and after years of frustration and sadness, the Ohnut has been a Godsend!! Truly so thankful for the people who invented Ohnut and were determined to not take “no” for an answer! My husband and I thank you!!! Seriously considering calling my OBGYN tomorrow to tell him to recommend this to ANY and all patients who have painful sex!!!! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! Hope is not lost!!!
While suffering long term with endo pain, sex with my boyfriend became a struggle for both of us. Nothing else had worked so I'd thought we'd give Ohnut a chance. If you have any doubts about this product, DON'T. It's so amazing and let us do positions we'd never thought we'd be able to do again. The stacking adjustment is perfect for when I have flare-ups, and I now no longer have pain during or after sex. I cannot say enough good things about this product. My boyfriend loves it too- says the rings are more comfortable than he thought they would be and almost doesn't notice he has them on. Thank you all so much for this wonderful product!
Today I had penetrative sex for the first time after suffering with vaginismus for 5 years. My husband has been super patient with me as every time we tried to have sex I would be in excruciating pain. It was a challenging married life for both of us, but after using this product (with 4 rings), we eventually were able to have sex without any pain. We removed the rings and tried without them and I was able to have my husband in me fully.
Get this product. It is worth the money
As a sexual assault survivor and someone who struggles with Interstitial Cystitis, sex has been something I've had issues with since my first time. Thank god for this product and its cute packaging. Highly recommend to anyone who has difficulty with sex (or not, they're fun!) Thank you thank you thank you, Emily, all the years of pelvic floor therapy couldn't do what you and your team have done.
I will never be able to thank you enough for creating this product. I have been sexually active for about 3 years. Never once have I enjoyed penetrative sex. It was EXTREMELY painful. When I spoke about it with my doctor I was told “try a different position.” Sex became this activity I dreaded engaging in because I knew it always led to immense pain.
A video ad of yours showed up on my fb and I was like “yah this is me. I am this woman.” I ordered the ohnut hoping for the best. Today I tried it for the first time and literally started crying because for the first time in my life penetrative sex was not painful.
Seriously thank you so much. You have changed my entire life! I can imagine the difficulties new businesses encounter, but please never give up. I never knew pain-free sex was possible. You have given me something I’ll never be able to repay, other than by trying to spread the word and help other women too!
Seriously, I have had trouble with pain during sex due to my husband's size for a decade. We made it work because we love each other, but it hurt both of us. This is the first product we have ever found that actually works. This has literally saved our sex life. I can't praise ohnut enough.
Dear life changing company,
Thank you for this product.
Seriously, it’s well worth the money. My wife and I love that we bought it. I’m going to have to start sending you all Christmas cards.
It's ultra soft and squishy, and it doesn't feel weird for the guy. I prefer it with the rounded side towards me, instead of the "link" side as shown in all the vague instructional pictures, it helps with more with motion-related tearing during rough sex.
I have a history of sexual assault and my partner prefers rougher & deeper sex, which isn't always the best combination. Painful cervical pounding during sex has always been kind of a trigger for me and this thing prevents that. Just makes everything way less stressful for both of us knowing that he won't go too deep and I won't panic about it.
I recommend putting however many links you want together first, then applying lube and putting it oh. Helps them stick together. I prefer a water-based lube so that they just take a quick rinse to clean off later.
This should be standard-issue at college clinics, right next to the condoms!
Okay, HEAR ME OUT. I never realized that every time I had sex I was actually in pain. I thought it was normal. And then I got Ohnut. My main reason to try it is that I have a cervical ectropion that would make sex... a bloody mess (not in the British sense of it unfortunately). I found out sex doesn't hurt?! Like, not at all?!! WHY HAS NO ONE EVER TOLD ME SEX SHOULD NOT HURT BEFORE?! And I don't bleed during/after intercourse since trying it. I owe my inner peace and newly found intimacy to the wonderful woman that invented Ohnut. Bonus: my partner is not bothered by it at all. It's comfortable and doesn't interfere with his pleasure. I would give 6 stars if I could. THANK YOU!
It did help but we had to use all four rings and I could still feel him bottom out; just without the severity of sex without the rings entirely. Would I use again? Yes, definitely- it takes the edge off so to speak 😏
My husband and I were at the point where sex was only happening once or twice a month. It was uncomfortable for me every time, and the awkward positions that didn't cause me pain weren't doing the trick for him. We were having sex that lasted way too long and neither of us really enjoyed. I was constantly worried that if I moved even slightly that it would hurt, and he was distracted by the fear of causing me pain.
Enter Ohnut, we used it as soon as it arrived in the mail and it was an instant game changer! No pain for me, and my husband had no problems finishing because he wasn't caught up in worrying hurting me. This product is miraculous!
Since menopause, my wife has suffered from age-related vaginismus. We bought the dilators, but she was so intimidated by the size of the largest dilators that she was never motivated to start with even the smallest one. I have a large penis (7" long, 5.5" around), bigger than the largest dilator in our set, so we felt pretty hopeless for any return to the old love life.
Vaginismus is not related to length, but when I saw Ohnut, I thought it might help us because my wife would not need to use the whole length of the dilators. I bought two sets of four ($$$), which expose a couple inches when compressed. By the way, don't try them on without lube (ouch!).
They look a little strange, but they feel quite comfortable, with enough gentle pressure to simulate the real thing. My wife is relieved knowing she only has to worry about two inches of penetration. I won't know how it feels during intercourse until the vaginismus treatment is complete, but it has us very hopeful!